I like what Tom Torbeyns said here

People should stop being overly spiritual by refusing to hold to such false ear-tickling views that God has one specific lady for you,… God has given us a free will so we can choose who we will marry. Then, the married need to be faithful to eachother. THAT is true Christianity.

It may need a bit more work on the triple negative
stop being
refusing to hold
ear-tickling views

just to clarify should we hold the view or is the view wrong but otherwise sounds good for most who are not too indepth in or out of this issue 🙂