Two Scriptures in response to the discussion in the OP:

About “getting in the flesh” when operating in the gifts of the Spirit:

Gal 5:19-21 “Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like…”

And about how the entire body is to operate in the gifts:

1Cor. 14:30 “If any thing be revealed to another that sitteth by, let the first hold his peace.”
…Have you ever seen THAT done?