Gentleman, We should wholly rely on THE WORD OF GOD along with it’s illumination by THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT,to guide ALL our choices, we should not rely on: man made culture,not our own conscience,not our heart,not what our pastor says,not what the overseer says,not our desires,but on THE LIFE GIVING WORD OF GOD working through us by the HOLY SPIRIT because we have gained access by THE BLOOD OF THE LAMB ,PERIOD !!!!!!!!!!!!